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Film School Rejects: WTF: And the Cause of Date Rape Is… Seth Rogen?

  • Aleric · 7 months ago
    I'd sleep with her, but only if she talks dirty to me, and I mean really dirty.
  • ANGRYBROOMSTICK · 7 months ago
    Well, as a feminist,I agree with Courtney (I regularly read Feministing) and she pretty much got that right. It was irresponsible of Rogen and Jody Hill to take date rape so lightly.

    Guess what? Movies, along with music and TV, can have an impact on young people and teach them about a lot of things, whether that's the movie's intention or not. You're probably right that most "bromance" dudes won't think that date rape is funny, but some kids out there will watch the scene and think "oh okay if I take a chick out on a date and get her reallly drunk, then maybe it's ok if I fuck her!"
  • Kevin_Carr · 7 months ago
    Uhhh... the movie is a hard-R. Kids shouldn't be watching it at all.

    They also take murder, physical assault, flashing, robbery, alcoholism, bipolar disorder and drug abuse lightly... arguably more lightly than date rape. Why is no one complaining about that? Is date rape worse than all of these? Why is it okay to have jokes about those, but not date rape?
  • RobertFure · 7 months ago
    Obviously I didn't like the movie, but like Carr and other intelligent people, its easy to not enjoy a film but not want those who made it to die horrible deaths or apologize for making it. I'm Robert Fure and I approve Kevin Carr's message.
  • ANGRYBROOMSTICK · 7 months ago
    it doesn't stop kids from watching R-rated movies and you know that. While >>I<< am personally NOT offended by the date rape scene, I do think that it sends out a wrong message to youths who are easily influenced by popular culture.

    and yes, many people do complain about excess violence in movies (and videogames), there are even organizations dedicated to censoring violence and rape and abuse in movies and videogames. I am always coming across articles everyday from people decrying rape, mysogyny and violence in hip hop music as well.

    it's just that YOU decided to ignore them while discussing date rape in this article.
  • Kevin_Carr · 7 months ago
    Kids who see R-rated movies is a parenting problem, not one for the industry. that's why there's a ratings system, flawed as it may be.

    I didn't choose to ignore all these organziations you talked about because I'm making a straw-man argument. I ignored them because they're irrelevant to the discussion of people wanting an apology from Seth Rogen for the scene. I haven't heard any of these groups complain about O&R... just people barking on and on about the date rape scene.

    Again, why is the date rape scene worse than anything else in that movie?
  • Murph · 7 months ago
    So kids would want to imitate someone like Ronnie? This isn't like, say, Manhunt where the main character who commits all the terrible acts is portrayed as the victim or noble. Ronnie is just really pathetic and unlikable, I don't really think anyone who watches the film would want to be like that character.
  • Arou101 · 7 months ago
    As far as I'm concerned-

    Carr-1
    [feminist]-0

    This commented has been moderated for language. Sorry, you can't use that word.
  • djjeffhall · 7 months ago
    Kevin - I kind of got the idea that her film post was also a bit tounge in cheek. Not the message, but the way it was delivered. Do people really use the term "bromen"?

    Maybe I'm wrong?
  • Murph · 7 months ago
    I found a video on the same site complaining about a lack of women performing at SXSW. They don't really seem tongue-in-cheek.
  • Rob_Hunter · 7 months ago
    Can we make 'Friday FSR Fuck You' a weekly feature?
  • ANGRYBROOMSTICK · 7 months ago
    I think that would be an excellent idea, yes.
  • Cole_Abaius · 7 months ago
    When we start asking for artists to apologize for their work, aren't we destroying art?
  • ANGRYBROOMSTICK · 7 months ago
    two answers: yes, because that's censorship and artists (and writers) should have the freedom to say, write, and express WHAT they want.

    second answer:
    No, because unfortunately, many actors and musicians are seen as role models, under the constant spotlight in the media, so there is pressure for them to be "good role models" for their fans.
  • Adam_Since_1986 · 7 months ago
    Well that is a burden that should not/can not be placed on the actors. It is not their fault that they are forced into the media spotlight. To say just because a person is famous due to following his or her dreams and making it in Hollywood that they should be held up to a higher standard then the average working Joe or Jane is just foolish. They are people just like everyone else they have highs they have lows. It is not reasonable to hold them up to a higher level of standards.

    You know who "good role models" are? Parents or at least they are supposed to be. When I first got to watch R rated action flicks with my dad back in the day there was never a time that I saw some one getting mowed down with gun fire that I thought "man this guy is who is shooting everyone is a good role model time to go pick up a gun". You know why I never thought that? You guessed it my parents taught me the difference between right and wrong, and played the role of being a good role model.
  • Bethany P · 7 months ago
    i think we might be destroying the function of the apology.
  • ANGRYBROOMSTICK · 7 months ago
    true, that's the parent's problem. I don't think the date rape scene is worse than anything else in the movie.

    Look, man, I'm not offended by that scene, BUT I can see why some others are offended by it.
  • Tenika · 7 months ago
    I personally consider myself a feminist as well. Neither Seth Rogen or Jody Hill are the cause of date rape. There are so many issues facing women right now in the world, why is she wasting her breath talking about a movie that:
    A) Finished 4th at the box office
    B) Was not even funny
    With all due respect to Courtney (I'm sure she and I agree on many things) there are bigger fish to fry sort of speak and Seth Rogen is not one. This film is rated R if children see it, then they have sh*tty parents, which is the real source of the world's problems. Sh*tty parents
  • b13irteen · 7 months ago
    i'm note going to debate whether the scene is rape or not, as i haven't seen the movie, but why is Seth Rogen being singled out for the blame of perpetuating "rape is ok"?
  • Curtis G · 7 months ago
    I would take this girl seriously If she asked for the entire production team of O&R to apologize and not just Seth. Pretty sure not everyone making that movie was a man. /cough sexist.
  • b13irteen · 7 months ago
    amen to that. when i saw Watchmen, 2, count em, 2 different sets of parents brought their children. And the kids appeared to be under 5!
  • Curtis G · 7 months ago
    Right many actors and musicians are seen as role models, not the characters they are playing. This is a fictional character, not really Seth.
  • ANGRYBROOMSTICK · 7 months ago
    I'm not saying that actors should be role models, but somehow they are, because they have fans and the media is always watching their every move.

    You would be surprised how some people actually think that an actor IS really like a fictional character from a movie or TV show (but most especially with TV shows if an actor has a recurring role)
  • Yaanu · 7 months ago
    All I know is that the term "womyn" is actually pretty cool to look at.

    I think it's the "y".
  • RobertFure · 7 months ago
    It has a nice balance. Looks like it would be some kind of evil worm. But I must object to people further destroying the English language. I am constantly bombarded by lyrics like "The way I are" or "She call my phone like da da da da," so the last thing I want is to try to read a legitimate argument with someone who throws away thousands of years of history because, you know, men have been pigs forever and their words are demons.
  • Bethany P · 7 months ago
    wow, i can't believe i'm about to disagree with a feminist, about anything. but she seemed kind of stoned and flighty in her video. SNORE. SO 90s. all in all, good for her for starting a conversation. good for kevin for continuing that conversation. i think she may have missed the mark a bit, but her vagina is in the right place. as for kevin....so is his. ;) good rant KC.
  • Adam_Since_1986 · 7 months ago
    Well that is a burden that should not/can not be placed on the actors. It is not their fault that they are forced into the media spotlight. To say just because a person is famous due to following his or her dreams and making it in Hollywood that they should be held up to a higher standard then the average working Joe or Jane is just foolish. They are people just like everyone else they have highs they have lows. It is not reasonable to hold them up on a higher level of standards.

    You know who "good role models" are? Parents or at least they are supposed to be. When I first got to watch R rated action flicks with my dad back in the day there was never a time that I saw some one getting mowed down with gun fire that I thought "man this guy is who is shooting everyone is a good role model time to go pick up a gun". You know why I never thought that? You guessed it my parents taught me the difference between right and wrong, and played the role of being a good role model.
  • Jenn · 7 months ago
    It's much more a case of mistaking bad judgment for date rape. As a feminist, I'm tired of the assumption of rape and male guilt, and that all women value their sexual relationships.

    Ronnie is bipolar. Brandi is the object of his obession. He's impaired by involuntary mental illness, she by voluntary inebriation. It' doesn't make sense to blame him, especially since there's a jumpcut.

    What I do find disturbing is the uneven depiction of an obsessive bipolar personality. I am not a mental health professional, but that bothered me. Ironically, I can't find any search results taking filmmakers to task over that aspect, just a lot of excessive hot air over the alleged date rape scene.
  • RobertFure · 7 months ago
    You confused someone with a bipolar disorder with a throw-away line in the plot that semi-justifies Ronnie being the worst person of the week.
  • Chille · 7 months ago
    I just don't find it plausible that someone would watch the movie and suddenly think date rape is okay. I mean it was made pretty clear that Rogen's character is not someone you want to be. I mean, if Seth Rogen had actually commited date rape it would be a different story because he is somewhat of a role model. But his character is very far from one.
  • Chille · 7 months ago
    Let me add to what I just said. It is however VERY possible for a child to be misguided by such a scene. However, children should not be watching the movie, due to the R rating, and all the buzz about the date rape scene. Plus, Courtney wasn't talking about children, she was talking about grown men or "bromen" as she chose to call them. And, while there are men who rape women, and are confused about what qualifies as consensual sex, this confusion is due to musc more complex psychological problems. I find it hard to believe it would make a difference to them if they think Seth Rogen said rape okay.
  • AndyIII · 7 months ago
    I just get so damn confused... so let me get this straight...date rape is bad?

    It's all just too much. Just last week I got a damn ticket after I got out of 'Four Fast Four Furious' because get this...the police officer said I couldn't drive 93mph in a school zone! Yeah, I know. I'll let you all know how my lawsuit against Paul Walker and Vin Deisel goes.
  • witchyflickchic · 7 months ago
    I do agree with you to an extent as I do think the feminist groups a going a wee bit overboard with this, especially since they're targeting the actor and not the guy that wrote the damn thing. However, I do disagree with your last paragraph. I think there are actually a lot of people out there that don't consider the scene in Observe and Report to be date rape (several people made this case in the chat on the /Filmcast Monday night) and the fact the movie makes light of it without acknowledging what it is doesn't help that problem. I'm in no way blaming the filmmakers for the ignorance of those people. But I think that most people who see films with murder or other similar illegal activities know that those things are crimes. Date rape is, sadly, one of those things that is still a gray area for a lot of people and thus, I think the equivalency you draw with other crimes depicted in film is a false one.
  • Jim_Rohner · 7 months ago
    "I hated it because it was a sucky movie, beginning to end."

    I love you for this, Kevin.

    Also, I think Anna Faris's "why are you stopping" question during the scene implied that the sex was consensual.
  • Kangaroo Be Stoned · 7 months ago
    It doesn't matter. Apparently when a woman is extremely drunk, even though she chose to get extremely drunk (unless she is being forced to drink) and she knows that the choices she makes while under the influence of alcohol will more than likely be irrational, her consent is null and void. If consent is impossible while being inebriated, then why doesn't it absolve responsibility for criminal actions? "I was drunk, Your Honor."

    I wonder what that woman in the video would say if Ronnie was drunk as well. Would he be a rapist? Afterall, consent is impossible while intoxicated.
  • PaulSileo · 7 months ago
    "Movies, along with music and TV, can have an impact on young people and teach them about a lot of things, whether that's the movie's intention or not."

    And that's none of these industries' faults. Call it bad parenting, a sad lack of social consciousness, or whatever you want, but these industries can make what they want. As a society, it's our right to embrace them or not, but they shouldn't have to tiptoe around or apologize for any of it. Date rape in real life isn't funny, date rape in a drama isn't supposed to be funny but may or may not be, depending on how well it's written, directed, or acted, date rape in a comedy is supposed to be funny but may or may not be, depending on how well it's written, directed, or acted.

    If something bothers you, don't see it, warn your family and friends about it, hell, stage a protest, but don't demand an apology. As Kevin said, "It's just a movie."
  • HempKnight 757 · 7 months ago
    Thats dumb bitch right there. First off didn't like the movie, but enjoyed the character because its something finally different for Rogen since 40YOV. It wasn't even rape & I'm sick of hearing about it. Its a movie. shut the fuck up about it please
  • HempKnight 757 · 7 months ago
    I mean has nobody seen "The Last House on the Left" the girl gets straight ass raped & the scene is way, way longer than that ones. where is this girl bitching about that
  • spartan261 · 7 months ago
    hey bitch....iron my shirt and shut the fuck up...now let me get back to the grinding
  • dragonmum · 7 months ago
    I'm at work so I can't watch the video right now... haven't seen the movie & don't plan to... but I think it's funny just how much press this is getting, and the movie is still doing this badly. Doesn't this kind of negative press usually backfire & drive sales up, since everyone wants to see what is being bitched about? just a thought...
  • Courtney · 7 months ago
    I'm not even talking about the movie since I haven't seen it but....I think most people would agree, legal or not, that being sober and having sex with a drunk person is a super shitty and unethical thing to do. If both people are drunk (like in Knocked Up) then you both just made a mistake (or had a good time!)

    But lots of shitty and unethical things happen in movies and I don't think the actors, directors, writers, or producers are trying to encourage any of that.
  • Tron · 7 months ago
    I dont get the commenters saying 'it's possible that children seeing this movie will think date rape is ok and take that message from this movie/that paticular scene'

    I'm all for equal rights (and obviously date rape or any kind of rape or sexual assault isn't cool) but this is just crazy. It's a stereotypical 'feminist' with the 'i have a vagina and he has a penis therefore he's WRONG WRONG WRONG AND MUST BE STOPPED' outlook.
    Sorry fembots but children aren't quite the morons you make them out to be. I mean when i was a kid watching bugs bunny I didn't think 'hey I wish I could launch myself out of a giant cannon lets go build one and do it'

    I mean do you honestly believe some kid is going to watch this movie and then when he's at a party years later look at some drunk chick and think 'well that movie i saw starring Seth Rogan when i was 11 said it was ok so lets go for it!'

    IF you honestly and truly believe THAT is at all a likely senario please, get your phonebook, look up the number for your local psychiatrist and book a few sessions.
  • Josh_Radde · 7 months ago
    I was scanning over the word Feministing.com and thought it said Fisting.com.

    P.S.--Don't go to Fisting.com.....NSFW, fo sho.
  • DrGiggles · 7 months ago
    I hate people that bitch about shit that they have no reason to bitch for, but there has been alot of rape in these newer shitty horror movies, why the fuck do you need that in there ya know? Seriously, in Zombies Halloween, there was no need for them to rape that chick on his bed, it didnt effect the story, or Myers... It seems like he put it in there just to put it in there, and now other shitty horror movies are following, why dont they add something good like MORE DEATH SCENES!! Some one needs to step up and put these shitty movies to shame, anybody can do it, boom here we go........ A genius working on a serum to cure insanity fucks up some how, and decides to start killing people in very clever ways, that would be cool lol hell i just might sit down and write a movie...
  • SmallTownCritic · 6 months ago
    Wait... Seth Rogan did the same thing to Katherine Heigl in "Knocked Up." Maybe he IS the reason behind all the date rape in America!!! He kind of took advantage of Elizabeth Banks in "Zack and Miri" too. Can no one stop him???
  • Amelia · 2 weeks ago
    You're wrong, pure and simple. Rogen really doesn't get what consent is:

    "When we're having sex and she's unconscious like you can literally feel the audience thinking, like, how the fuck are they going to make this okay? Like, what can possibly be said or done that I'm not going to walk out of the movie theater in the next thirty seconds? . . . And then she says, like, the one thing that makes it all okay:
    BRANDI: "Why are you stopping, motherfucker?""

    Also, "stereotypically homely"? What the hell?